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13-year-old student wows Morehouse

Stephen Stafford II in front of MLK statue on campus.

by Kalin Thomas

As a 13-year-old, Lithonia resident Stephen Stafford II can usually be found sitting in front of the television playing video games or playing his drum set. But Stafford is no typical 13-year old – he’s a college student. The triple-major child prodigy is becoming a sensation at Morehouse College.

“I’ve never taught a student as young as Stephen, and it’s been amazing,” said computer science professor Sonya Dennis. “He’s motivating other students to do better and makes them want to step up their game.”

“When I saw how much knowledge Stephen has at such a young age, I wondered what I had been doing with my life,” laughed third-year student, Eric Crawford. A psychology major and computer science minor, Crawford wanted to step up his game so much that he got Stephen to tutor him. “Even though I’m older, Stephen is like a mentor and my elder in computer science,” said Crawford.

“Eric’s a really fun person to be around, and we have a good time together,” said Stafford.

Crawford added, “Stephen has a lot of patience with me. I got a 95 in the class because of Stephen.”

Even at age 11 when Stafford started at Morehouse, he got the highest score in his pre-calculus class. “He breezes through whatever I throw at him. If it’s an hour lab, he can do it in 20 or 30 minutes,” said Dennis.

Stafford said he isn’t nervous about studying with students much older than himself. “I just do what I always did. I show up, I do the work, and I go home,” he said.

When talking to Stafford, it’s easy to forget his age. But his age shows when he’s playing video games or even at dinner, where he eats while also trying to solve a Rubik’s Cube. Still, Stafford finds it hard to relate to teens his age. “I relate better to Eric…most kids my age don’t know when to stop playing around and when to be serious,” he said.

Stafford’s mother, Michelle Brown-Stafford, home-schooled both her children (Stephen has an older sister also in college) and believes that parental involvement is essential for students to excel. But when she realized her son was starting to teach her instead of being taught, she knew he needed to be in a college environment.

“It was surreal because on one hand he’s talking about technical things I didn’t even understand, and on the other hand he was asking me to come watch Sponge Bob with him. So it was bittersweet to let him go.”

Brown-Stafford wondered if there were other parents who shared her experiences with a gifted child, so she helped found a support group: www.gifted-spirit.com.

And the Morehouse family has become a support group for Stafford, personifying the African proverb about it taking a village to raise a child. Stafford is too young to stay on campus, so his mother picks him up and drops him off each day. The students protect him and make a point not to curse or discuss certain mature issues around him, according to his mother and Stafford. Even the staff of Jazzman’s Café, where Stafford tutors Crawford, helps nurture Stephen into becoming a “Morehouse Renaissance Man”–well-spoken, well-dressed, well-read, well-traveled, and well-balanced. The cafe’s general Manager, Darren Page, added an unofficial principle: well-fed. “A Morehouse Man cannot study on an empty stomach,” said Page. So whenever Stafford comes to Jazzman’s, Page gives up his own employee meal for the 13-year-old.

It seems that everyone wants to be a part of helping Stafford graduate in 2012, and go on to Morehouse School of Medicine. And because of a Georgia law that requires a student to be 16 to graduate high school, he’ll be getting his high school diploma the same year he receives his college degrees in math, computer science and pre-med.

“Kids will live up to your expectations. But I ultimately want Stephen to be happy,” said Stephen Stafford Sr. Brown-Stafford added, “I want him to be well-rounded and still connect with kids his own age, so we put him in DeKalb County’s 4-H Club and other programs.” She added that she’s thankful to the Morehouse family for embracing her son.

“I want to see what Stephen becomes 10 years from now,” said Crawford. Page added, “I want to be at his graduation. And then I want to walk by and touch the [campus] statue of Dr. Martin Luther King and recognize I had a role in [Stephen] walking in Martin Luther King’s footsteps.” And how fitting, since Dr. King entered Morehouse at age 15.

So to put a spin on Dr. King’s “I Have a Dream” speech, Stephen is being judged by the content of his character, not by his age.

 

 


Comments (73)

beverly alleyne
Said this on 1/12/10 At 09:52 am
I have a 13 yr old grandson and I would love for him to contact Stephen. He wants to be a pilot, however he doesn't realise how much he needs to work now. He can fly a plane on the flight simulator, but he needs to study. I think Stephen is a blessing to his peers. Have a great day.
James
Said this on 1/12/10 At 12:25 am
To Appalachian Odyssesy:
He's a 13 year old kid at college! Where do you not see the great thing in that?!?! What makes Morehouse not a REAL College??? Because of the fact that it's an HBCU??? That's one thig that I can't stand about our people (if you are African American). We're like a bucket of crabs.... When one of us tries to successfully get outside of the bucket, there is always another crab trying to pull us back in with them. We're all running the same race so why are you trying to trip us up? Do not look down apon us HBCU's and embrace the fact that we even have them because many slaves and people fought and died so that black people could even go to school. As an Undergrad student of Alabama State University, I can say that I love my school and the Marian 9 slaves who fought for it. I don't know about YOUR school but MY school is a REAL school! Instead of downing a 13 year old boy for being probably the most sucessful thing out there, you need to CONGRAT him for being way more of a success than you'll ever be. Be happy that he is not a black male stastic in this world. That comment was ignorant.
Liz
Said this on 1/11/10 At 04:43 pm
Ignorant. That is all I can say about you. It seems you have had little education.
John Smith
Said this on 1/10/10 At 11:49 pm
Appalachian Odyssesy, I disagree with you totally. Morehouse is a "real university". Just check out Wall Street Journal Top feeder schools to elite graduate schools.
Alex Wilson
Said this on 1/9/10 At 12:31 pm
Too often news reports are about our kids shooting or being shot by someone and going to jail. We all have to do our part to break that cycle. Excellent article.

Alex Wilson
Dr. Shirley A. Biggs
Said this on 1/9/10 At 12:01 pm
Stephen and his family are blessed and a blessing to all who are exposed to their story. It takes both family and a "village" like the one Morehouse is providing to give healthy support to children like Stephen. I strongly believe that when adults hold high but reasonable expectations for our children, they can achieve and become strong, productive, and caring human beings whose presence blesses us all.
Pamula Edwards
Said this on 1/7/10 At 05:43 pm
Wow! Stephen, you are incredible. I read the article about you to my 3rd, 4th & 5th grade homeschool students that I tutor. They think you are the greatest! Keep up the good work at Morehouse. You make all of us so very proud.
Pamula Edwards
Said this on 1/6/10 At 07:54 pm
Wow! Stephen, you are incredible. I tutor students that are being homeschool by their parents. I could not wait to share this article about you with them. You are such an inspiration to them all. Keep up the good work, Stephen.
pamella butts
Said this on 1/6/10 At 04:01 pm
GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME. FAMILY STAY PROUD OF YOUR SON. STEPHEN WHAT YOU DO YOU WILL DO IT WELL..NEVER GIVE UP. ALWAYS KEEP YOU HEAD HIGH. GOD BLESS
Wright1
Said this on 1/6/10 At 09:54 am
Well apparently you've had some problems spelling and couldn't possibly understand the excellence that Stephen possesses! So take a tip from this young man, and study hard no matter what institution of learning is chosen!
Appalachian Odyssey
Said this on 1/5/10 At 01:08 am
Nothing against Stephen - I wish him well, but it dosen't take much to excel at Morehouse. Get out of that place and go to a real university.
Rosa
Said this on 12/31/09 At 09:03 pm
The work that this child has accomplished in 2 years is more than a lot of us accomplish in a life time. Stephen bring a lot of encouragement to a lot of people,and I am one of them. I salute you Stephen.
Miriam Almond
Said this on 12/25/09 At 10:14 pm
God bless you and your son. My grandson is 12 years old now and has been preaching the gospel since he was 5 years old. His goal is to go to Morehouse College. Thank you.Miriam

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