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Decatur High student spends week living as Muslim woman

Cecilia Kuehnel gets ready to go out in a hijab, a headscarf worn by Muslim women. Photo by Leela Goshorn

For an entire week Decatur High School senior Cecilia Kuehnel wore a hijab, a headscarf worn by Muslim women that covers everything but the eyes. She also awoke at 5 a.m. each morning to pray.

“I was praying with hundreds of thousands of people at the same time. It’s really empowering to know that we were all saying the same words with the same message,” Kuehnel said. She also refrained from eating pork and different types of meat—but she isn’t Muslim.

Kuehnel, who has been studying Arabic for the past two years, said she considers herself a Christian. However, for her senior project she decided to live as a conservative Muslim woman for a week, as a social experiment.

“I realized that I can’t learn the language if I don’t know the culture. The senior project opened up this whole opportunity for me—a period of time where I could do anything as long as it benefited the community,” Kuehnel said.

Part of Kuehnel’s project was to give a presentation to a class of seventh graders at Renfroe Middle School about her week masquerading as a Muslim woman. She said she wanted to spread awareness of Muslim culture to the children.

“Nowadays you can’t really afford to be ignorant and you need to know different cultures and ways of life, especially in Decatur,” Kuehnel said.

The students sat quietly in the library at Renfroe Middle, occasionally raising their hands to ask Kuehnel a question about her week. One student asked why she didn’t eat meat. “Because in the Koran it says Muslims are forbidden to eat animals with hooves,” she told him.

Kuehnel told the students that during her week wearing the hijab, every day was like studying for a test because each time she made a mistake saying a prayer in Arabic, she had to start all over.

“One time I was praying and I had my prayer rug facing mecca—you’re not allowed to have cats or dogs in the same room while you’re praying because it’s considered unclean,” Kuehnel told the students. “Before I knew it my cat had laid in front of me on my prayer rug. I had to wash the rug, my hands and my face, before I could pray. I missed about two cycles of prayer and had to redo them later in the day.”

One student asked Kuehnel what she would do differently if she could live her week wearing the hijab over again. She told him that she would surround herself with Muslims.

Originally, Kuehnel wanted to wear the hijab for an entire month but her teachers and parents thought that was too extreme.

“Even after I had sat down all of the Muslim students at my school and had them approve it, everyone thought it was too radical so I shortened it to a week,” Kuehnel said. “I guess the people who felt most uncomfortable with the project were mostly White Christians.”

Kuehnel said the majority of her time spent in public wearing the hijab was pleasant and many Muslim women came up to her and spoke to her in Arabic, which she was thrilled about. Kuehnel said the experience opened her eyes and her religious beliefs are now a hybrid of Islamic and Christian values.

In September, Kuehnel will be moving to Morocco for a year to study. She said her week spent living as a conservative Muslim woman has made her feel more prepared for what she will encounter during her stay in Morocco.

“I’m also more excited about learning the language than I ever have been before. I’ll be living with a host family in Morocco and every seventh day we’ll be going on a field trip. I think the first one we’ll be going on is a camel ride,” Kuehnel said.

 


Comments (14)

Michelle
Said this on 5/9/12 At 10:34 pm
Well...everyone makes mistakes. You can not expect her to be a scholar, she is a young high school student. She wanted to understand. I think thats better than shouting insults n being discriminatory. It seems we always find something negative to find in everything... I think it is wonderful and flattering attempt.
Said this on 4/30/12 At 07:10 pm
I think it is a good experience for anyone to learn about other people cultures... for helping people to know about Arabic and Islamic Cultures ..I established this website to help students in my community learning the Arabic language as a second language and to post our community cultural activities online.. Serving my community, immigrants, schools, universities, professionals, researchers and others who are interested in learning Arabic and studying Arabic and Islamic cultures. .. please check it out .. myarabicwebsite.com
ُEman
Said this on 4/28/12 At 07:49 am
You are correct Sam on both your comments.
Said this on 4/15/12 At 07:11 pm
Any effort at promoting understanding should be appreciated, and everyone who was involved in this project and its reporting deserves commendation, despite the little mistakes here and there. Who's to say we wouldn't make bigger mistakes were we to 'adopt' a totally foreign culture or report on its 'dress-code' without having sufficient experience to back us up? Plus the fact that we Muslims have varying notions in different parts of the world on what a 'hijab' constitutes, forgetting that the Qur'an calls women's head-covers 'khumur' (from 'khimar'), and not 'hijab' at all.

May we always grow in understanding and acceptance.

Randa Hamwi Duwaji
Hannan
Said this on 4/14/12 At 09:05 am
I commend her for being so open minded. She could have done a little more research before beginning the project. I hope it was a posotive experience for her.
Said this on 4/13/12 At 08:49 pm
Salaam Aminah,

I think that's a little harsh. She's just a high school student and there is A LOT of research that goes into every little detail of Islam. For her age and for what she was hoping to accomplish, I think she did her best and it may not be perfect. It's worth the effort since she represented Islam in a positive way. So what if there were mistakes? Those can always be corrected, it's the fact that she chose to touch on a subject that is so denigrated in society today. I saw props to her and A for effort.
Aminah (convert)
Said this on 4/13/12 At 02:45 pm
Hey Nick,
A bit harsh....but I feel u. I do.
Aminah (convert)
Said this on 4/13/12 At 02:43 pm
Interesting...definitely applaud the effort but seriously feel sad for her that she was fed SO much misinformation! WHO was she talking to? Cats do NOT cause one to have to wash anything it touches. My cats lay close to me all the time when I pray - TOTALLY false. Also, we do eat MEAT...just not PORK. SO false. Making an error in prayer...not a problem. You correct yourself and if noticed b4 prayer ends, you simply make an extra prostration at the end. And one HUGE misconception...Islam and culture: 2 totally DIFF things. Islam is a religion of a billion people +...Culture in each Arab speaking country will be totally diff and Cecilia will learn that in Morocco.
Nick
Said this on 4/13/12 At 02:16 pm
What a horrible article. There are so many factual errors and presumptions made on the part of the subject and the author! Please avoid publishing such garbage in the future.
Rahaf Hammai
Said this on 4/13/12 At 12:14 pm
Very nice idea for a senior project to promote intercultural understanding. I agree with Sam though that some of what Kuehnel imposed on herself are really not required by any means in Islam. One more thing he did not mention is that meat except for pork is absolutely allowed- you can buy Halal meat from many cultural stores and it is basically similar to the kosher meat. Also covering the face except for the eyes is not required in Islam although some women adhere to that way. Al Islam is a religion that encourages the easy middle path in living. A verse in Al Qur'an says to the effect : God wants the easy not the difficult for you.
Sam
Said this on 4/13/12 At 11:50 am
I applaud her efforts. I actually did not know much about Islam, but I had a lot of misconceptions, that is until I was assigned a Muslim roommate in college. However, a few things came to my attention.

“One time I was praying and I had my prayer rug facing mecca—you’re not allowed to have cats or dogs in the same room while you’re praying because it’s considered unclean,” Kuehnel told the students. “Before I knew it my cat had laid in front of me on my prayer rug. I had to wash the rug, my hands and my face, before I could pray. I missed about two cycles of prayer and had to redo them later in the day.”

Dog's--I'm not so sure. But for cats, I'm pretty sure that's not true. My cats sit near and sometimes my roommates lap when she prays. I don't believe it breaks their Wudu.

Also "each time she made a mistake saying a prayer in Arabic, she had to start all over." --> I also asked my Muslim roommate about this. That's not true either, at least from her experience. If you make an error, you correct it and keep going in the prayer. Sometimes even the person who leads the prayer makes mistakes; however, once corrected, they continue praying.
aleyamma
Said this on 4/13/12 At 11:40 am
Shoddy reporting. As the photo clearly demonstrates, a hijab shows more than a person's eyes.
Cynthia
Said this on 4/13/12 At 11:32 am
Clearly she meant that she believed her understanding of Arabic would deepen if she had a greater understanding if Islam. Every serious student I've known of any language has come to the conclusion that to truly speak the language well they have to understand it in a cultural context and in in this case at least that includes religion.
Frank Grimes
Said this on 4/13/12 At 11:23 am
"I realized that I can’t learn the language if I don’t know the culture." Is she aware that Arabic language/culture and Islam are 2 exclusive things? You don't have to be a Muslim to speak or be Arabic. The millions of Arabic Christians and Jews speak Arabic just fine.

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